Hi, my name is Abby. I have been with my life partner James for many, many years. Yes, he is a human and I am a cat but it is the only successful relationship he has had because when he was a child he was molested and this made him angry, sad, crazy, violent, fake, a liar, to some a monster, a criminal, a woman abuser, drug addict, alcoholic, fighter, face puncher (he even punched his own face), cutter, professional rage consultant, cop hater, courtroom #5 regular, vandalism expert, woman hater, society hater, martyr, guilt ridden dumbass, high body count plotter, revenge artist, general nut job and a host of other negative personality traits that made him into a Frankenstein monster. The sad thing is he is one of the most sensitive, outgoing, funny, loving , fair, compassionate, attractive, athletic, caring, talented, intelligent, hard working, dedicated and best of all the most loyal person I have ever known. Children are like the most beautiful butterflies. A very vulnerable victim that can be crushed by someones hands and they never fly again. Finally after years of waiting for James to be the headline in a "Suicide by Cop" story he has turned his life into something that he can be proud of. I want to read for you the Ottawa Sun news article that saved his life. And probably mine too cause I am pretty sure that old James was taking me with him. Dodged that bullet by days I am sure. Ottawa Sun Wednesday March 7th, 2012 by Marlo Cameron. James Hoeklstra was just child when he met Francine Desormeaux in 1981. Now a grown man, the memory of his relationship with Desourmeaux has left him with years of unresolved anger and difficulty maintaining relationships. But Tuesday he got some closure. Desourmeaux was given an 18-month conditional sentence, 18-months of probation and 150hours of community service after pleading guilty to One count(over 300 encounters thought) each of sexual assault and indecent assault. In 1981, Hoekstra was an 11-year -old student at the Child Study Center in Ottawa, Desourmeaux was his social worker. They became involved in an intimate relationship that lasted about 5 years. " I knew that there were certain things in society that adults would not talk about and at the time I was confused" Hoekstra said. He says he was her first victim but not her last. "It most important to me she doesn't re-offend" he said. " I need to get rid of my guilt because I should have come forward earlier so other kids wouldn't have been molested". Hoekstra said when he was 17, after their relationship had ended, he realized that he himself was a victim of sexual assault. He said he approached her and said he would go to the police. At that point, Desourmeaux began her career at OC Transpo. For years afterward, Hoekstra said he was angry, only realizing later in life that many of his problems with relationships, women and rage stemmed from his experience with Desourmeaux. In court, he thanked her for her apology and for owning up to her actions. " She could have made it so much worse, " he said. " Because it's one thing that she did to me, but it's another thing to deny it. That's what I was thanking her for." Over the two year process, Hoekstra said that he has slowly learned to let go and that it's OK to talk about what happened." Now we have formed the organization we call ABBnormal Army. An army of people who will fight for children.
On the hill looking for MP's or other government related abusers because you have to be an abuser or supporter if you have the ability to change the laws and all you do about it is cash your paychecks and wait for the HUGE pensions when you retire at 40. They must be stopped and the laws must be changed. Stephen Harper's friend/drummer named Phillip Nolan a teacher, is a child molester. What did Steve do, NOTHING. If my own family/friends ever do anything like that I would do something to shame them. I am a moron with zero power and I still would do something. He was the most powerful person in Canada and did, you guessed it, NOTHING. Well you know how the saying goes. "First you get the money, then you get the Army, then you get the power. " In 2015 I received a small settlement after the most disgusting, greed based, degrading civil case where the lawyers benefit more than the victims. They managed to make me feel raped again. So now I have a little money. Next is the Army. Then we will gain the power to stop the cycle of abuse this country is suffering. I have only 2 choices as I am too old to be successful in life. Save as many children as I can or die trying.
Abby and I taking a skate on the canal. When I was 7 a local news anchor tried to feel me up. He used his dogs to get me to feel comfortable with him. I still can smell the alcohol and cologne mix and see the bracelet he was wearing. I was warned by other kids and adults in my neighborhood to stay away from him. Over the years I have heard many, many stories about him molesting kids. In the last 10 years I have spoken to his victims and the same thing keeps coming up. He was protected and used his power, money and influence to keep molesting kids and make his adult victims fear him. Sound familiar? Micheal Jackson had dozens of pictures of blond haired, blue eyed boys in his house. King of pop to me is the king of getting away with molesting kids. I have been told I will get sued for making statements like that but why are people so fucking quick to see what they want, hear what they want? Where there is smoke, flames and heat, there is fire. Jimmy Savile, 600 victims and people still call him sir jimmy. Jerry Sandusky had a few 100 and he is still a football hero to some. We all know what these people are but do nothing. This has to stop. The world would live in peace if we stopped hurting children and put their needs first. Changing legislation concerning children's rights and putting them higher than our adult sense of entitlement would be a good start. People's sense of entitlement is what makes this world a shitty place sometimes. PUT CHILDREN'S PROTECTION AND SAFETY FIRST.
We will do what we have to, to be there for any child or adult that needs us. These situations are very difficult for everyone, EXCEPT US. It is what we were born to do, what we choose to do regardless of the consequences, know what we are doing is the right thing and most of all that child abusers come in all sizes, shapes, genders and are everywhere. Well, so are we. When you contact us you are under our protection and you will stop fearing them and the people who support them. Our attitude is if you are not with us you are against us. When you abuse a child they grow up to be Frankenstein monsters costing society BILLIONS of dollars and in some cases becoming molesters themselves. Most are planted with some evil inside but you must understand there is Good Evil and Bad Evil. Sometimes you need evil to fight evil.
Abbnormal Army's Mandate is to use society's accepted means and methods to change legislation regarding the impotent laws relating to child abuse
If you have money, use it to help a kids yourself, this way you know where it is going. Right to the kids. Help kids get away from their abuser and have them charged. If you have anger, direct it towards the molesters only. If you are scared or can't come forward, contact us. Tell everyone who will listen who the molesters and the people who enable them are. Most molesters have helpers. Convince everyone who is or has been molested to come forward with their story and NAMES. Both the abuser and victims. Stop this bullshit of not coming forward with your info so the molesters can continue to hurt kids. Convince yourself and others that you have a responsibility to stop someone if they are an abuser. If not, you are just as responsible if they abuse someone else. Fuck society and their judgement of victims. Make sure someone is telling the truth. If someone is wrongly accused it puts us back many steps so make sure. Go to the police and if they don't do anything contact us and we will, trust us. Use your strengths and let others use theirs. Put your ego, sense of entitlement, religion, fear, and anything that will not help aside so you can just help the kids. Do what you can, when you can and the rest will come into place. ALWAYS stop abuse no matter what, when, where, how and who. James has put his life on the line so many times he can't count and like he says, " If a fucked up moron like me can do the right thing anyone can, everyone knows the difference between right and wrong when it comes to kids being abused". You know in your heart what to do so go do it and we are here when you need us. In our experience kids who have been molested tend to go on a bad path. Girls tend to lie down and open their legs and boys tend to put up their fists. We much teach girls to be ladies and the boys to be gentlemen. This will greatly increase their chances of being successful in life. Give them a light at the end of the tunnel. Education, career, marriage, home ownership are some of the ways to do that. Finally when we get all our ducks in a line and try to change legislation using the power of our army please support us is the plan we devise. Maybe everyone goes to Parliament Hill like the dopers on 4/20? Any suggestions on how to change legislation are welcome. Thanks.